Quotes by Desmond Tutu

All the United States, it is a society that is split like to the bottom, that had very poor people in the country that is one of the wealthiest countries.

Dream! Dream! And then go for it!

Sometimes you want to whisper in God's ear, 'God, we know you are in charge, but why don't you make it slightly more obvious?'

Arrogance really comes from insecurity, and in the end our feeling
that we are bigger than others is really the flip side of our feeling that we are smaller than others.

You should never hate yourself for hating others who do terrible things: the depth of your love is shown by the extent of your anger.

God has been incredible in creating us to be persons.

The moment our dignity is undermined, we get up in arms and want to see our dignity restored especially if we are humiliated.

And every human being is precious.

You are not an afterthought, you are not an accident.

I am not an afterthought I am not an accident.

Human beings can be awful, but they can also be tremendous.

We mustn't romanticize suffering. It can turn people bitter and hard, although it does seem to have been almost indispensable in making people into the kind of leaders that we admire.

Peace comes when you talk to the guy you most hate. And that's where the courage of a leader comes, because when you sit down with your enemy, you as a leader must already have very considerable confidence from your own constituency.

You don't think we have a copyright to forgiveness, it is done by people everywhere.

People often speak of God being even-handed. God is not even-handed. God is biased, in favor of the weak, of the despised.

We have a planet that is at risk, where resources don't have a permanent life. We are going to have to make the decision: are we going to survive or are we waiting for our extinction? One day we will wake up and find people are fighting not for oil but water.

The world's forests are a shared stolen treasure that we must put back for our children's future.

When you think of the sort of things that happen when a genocide happens, it's again not people who are intrinsically evil.

Life is more than breath and a heartbeat; meaning and purpose are the life of life.

When you nurse a grudge it is not good for your health.

You ask when is it that you can say yes we have had enough. It is enough revenge and I think now we have restored the equilibrium. It never happens!

There is no peace precisely because there has been no justice. As painful and inconvenient as justice may be, we have seen that the alternative allowing accountability to fall by the wayside is worse.

God wants to set the oppressed free from being oppressed and the oppressors free from oppressing.

You are either on the side of the oppressed or on the side of the oppressor. You can't be neutral.

There is no situation that is not transformable. There is no person who is hopeless. There is no set of circumstances that cannot be turned about by ordinary human beings and their natural capacity for love of the deepest sort.

People took some part of us and used it to discriminate against us. In our case, it was our ethnicity; it's precisely the same thing for sexual orientation.

God is forever using especially young people, not oldies like us, God likes using young people.

Like humility, generosity comes from seeing that everything we have and everything we accomplish comes from God's grace and God's love for us ... Certainly it is from experiencing this generosity of God and the generosity of those in our life that we learn gratitude and to be generous to others.

We must not only speak about forgiveness and reconciliation, we must act on these principles.

When we look at a conflict, it is so often rooted in injustice, prejudice, competition for resources, poverty, poor governance and corruption.

Dream of a world where children can laugh and play and not be blown up by a mine they thought was a toy.

We must stop climate change. And we can, if we use the tactics that worked in South Africa against the worst carbon emitters.

Jesus could weep. Sometimes when you look at the ugliness that makes you weep, you know that the heart of God is also weeping. Jesus is for real. He does not give up on anyone, least of all on me.

I think that most of us would prefer to be popular than unpopular.

People united in pursuit of a righteous cause are unstoppable.

Sadly, the things that we have set out as being worth striving for are not ultimately the things that satisfy human longings. And why not? Because we are practically the ultimate paradox: the finite made for the infinite.

You have seen after Katrina just what failures there are in American Society.

Having looked the past in the eye, having asked for forgiveness and having made amends, let us shut the door on the past--not in order to forget it but in order not to allow it to imprison us.

At home in South Africa I have sometimes said in big meetings where you have black and white together: 'Raise your hands!' Then I have said: 'Move your hands,' and I've said 'Look at your hands -- different colors representing different people. You are the Rainbow People of God.'

Stability and peace in our land will not come from the barrel of a gun, because peace without justice is an impossibility.

To take a life when a life has been lost is revenge, not justice.

A person who is assured of the love of God will see his fellow men in a different light and treat them and himself differently, and of course this also applies to business leaders.

Every praying person, every person who has an encounter with God, must have a passionate concern for his or her brother and sister, his or her neighbor. To treat any of these as if he were less than the child of God is to deny the validity of one's spiritual existence.

Our Christian faith is actually very subversive of the conventional notion of success -- the notion that what invests a person with worth is something extrinsic.

My message to the international community is that our silence and complicity especially on the situation in Gaza shames us all. It is almost like the behaviour of the military junta in Burma.

The fossil reserves that have already been discovered exceed what can ever be safely used. Yet companies spend half a trillion dollars each year searching for more fuel. They should redirect this money toward developing clean energy solutions.

To forgive is to abandon your right to pay back the predator in his own coin, but it is the loss that Liberates.

There are things that must evoke our anger to show we care. It is what we do with that anger. If we direct that energy we can use it positively or destructively.

Fundamental rights belong to the human being just because you are a human being.

An abusive relationship should be easy to identify though often one of the most difficult to end.

South Africa, so utterly improbably, is a beacon of hope in a dark and troubled world.

If we are going to see real development in the world then our best investment is WOMEN!

Let girls be girls and not brides.

Catharsis returns us to the purpose for which were originally intended -- to be called by God to do good -- and thus ultimately returns us to ourselves.

Every single one of us can do something, however small, to make a difference.

Without forgiveness, there is no future.

The time has now come to slow down, to sip Rooibos tea with my beloved wife in the afternoons, to watch cricket, to travel to visit my children and grandchildren, rather than to conferences and conventions and university campuses.

It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul.

I'm so, so thrilled that Pope Francis is there at this crucial moment in the history of our world.

It is quite exhilarating to speak about a God who has an incredible bias, a notorious bias in favor of the downtrodden. You look at Exodus and the Israelites' escape from a bottomless pit. God is not evenhanded. God is biased up to his eyebrows.

People in apartheid South Africa can tell you that God cursed black people when they cursed Him. And so the hermetic people were condemned to be drawers of water and of wood.

My flock is black, my flock is white. One has got to say to our people, I love you. I care for you, enormously. And when I care about black liberation, it is because I care about white liberation.

In the end what matters is not how good we are but how good God is. Not how much we love Him but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we've done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can't.

Like when you sit in front of a fire in winter -- you are just there in front of the fire. You don't have to be smart or anything. The fire warms you.

Most poor people I know are proud and really want not a handout but a hand up. They do have an inherent pride and dignity, and we should treat them as those who have fallen on bad days.

Serve others. The failing recipe for happiness and success is to want the good of others.

We struggled against apartheid because we were being blamed and made to suffer for something we could do nothing about. It is the same with homosexuality. The orientation is a given, not a matter of choice. It would be crazy for someone to choose to be gay, given the homophobia that is present.

If you want to keep people subjugated, the last thing you place in their hands is a Bible. There's nothing more radical, nothing more revolutionary, nothing more subversive against injustice and oppression than the Bible.

This is a moral universe, which means that, despite all the evidence that seems to be to the contrary, there is no way that evil and injustice and oppression and lies can have the last word.

If we have loved well while we were alive, there is life after death here-our love will go on for generations.

The devastation wreaked by landmines is not only horrendous but immoral.

I have no doubt that in the future, the laws that criminalize human love and commitment will look the way the apartheid laws do to us now, so obviously wrong.

Love your enemy; it will ruin his reputation.

There's no question about the reality of evil, of injustice, of suffering, but at the center of this existence is a heart beating with love. That you and I and all of us are incredible. I mean, we really are remarkable things. That we are, as a matter of fact, made for goodness.

The way sometimes we preach we make out that God is waiting eagerly to catch us out. It's not that way at all. I mean, it is extraordinary because it almost is as if God in fact wills us also to sin, but that is not true.

We have an extraordinary God. God is a mighty God, but this God needs you. When someone is hungry, bread doesn't come down from heaven. When God wants to feed the hungry, you and I must feed the hungry. And now God wants peace in the world.

It may seem daunting, but I am a prisoner of hope. We are more connected than ever before, we have more knowledge, and there are solutions if we work together. Today's technology is a great asset in encouraging global cooperation and understanding.

Once lost, trust can only be regained if we are as good as our word.

When we look squarely at injustice and get involved, we actually feel less pain, not more, because we overcome the gnawing guilt and despair that festers under our numbness. We clean the wound -- our own and others' -- and it can finally heal.

In terms of the New Testament the Jews must suffer, therefore we will put it into practice if we will in charge and there will be no sympathy for the Jews when the blacks take over.

I hope that when the time comes, I am treated with compassion and allowed to pass on to the next phase of life's journey in the manner of my choice.

Theology reminded me that, however diabolical the act, it did not turn the perpetrator into a demon. We had to distinguish between the deed and the perpetrator, between the sinner and the sin, to hate and condemn the sin while being filled with compassion for the sinner.

Forgiving is a gift to the forgiver as well as to the perpetrator.

As the victim, you offer the gift of your forgiving to the perpetrator who may or may not appropriate the gift but it has been offered and thereby it liberates the victim.

People sometimes strive after and think they will find deep satisfaction for their psyches in wealth, sex or drugs, but then find that ultimately these things do not satisfy human longings.

Forgiveness and reconciliation are not just ethereal, spiritual, other-worldly activities. They have to do with the real world. They are realpolitik, because in a very real sense, without forgiveness, there is no future.

My father always used to say, Don't raise your voice. Improve your argument.

Restorative justice says No, the offense affected a relationship and what you are seeking for is to restore the relationship, to heal the relationship.

The abolition of the death penalty is making us a civilized society. It shows we actually do mean business when we say we have reverence for life.

It's a fantastic thing, a very simple idea. Irrespective of your politics, of your culture, of your race, of your whatever, hierdie ding doen ons saam...Here is one thing that can unite us irrespective of all of the things that are trying to tear us apart.

Making the truth public is a form of justice. This is a moral universe and you've got to take account of the fact that truth and lies and goodness and evil are things that matter.

A time of crisis is not just a time of anxiety and worry.
It gives a chance, an opportunity, to choose well or to choose badly.

You know when ubuntu is there, and it is obvious when it is absent. It has to do with what it means to be truly human, to know that you are bound up with others in the bundle of life.

Ubuntu really says if you want to be nice to yourself, start in a way by being nice to the other.

The only separation the Bible knows is between believers on the one hand and unbelievers on the other. Any other kind of separation, division, disunity is of the devil. It is evil and from sin.

It is by standing up for the rights of girls and women that we truly measure up as men.

I've often been a little concerned by people who say they are color-blind, people who claim, in some ways, not to be aware of race, and I hope that those who will be looking for a vision of the future will be a little more honest, and say race actually does matter.

In order to turn around and do something better, we must first escape the vicious circle of self-righteousness and denial. And that calls for the humility to say I'm sorry. Please forgive me.

If forgiving depended on the culprit owning up, then the victim would always be at the mercy of the perpetrator. The victim would be bound in the shackles of victimhood.

I think that most of us would say that ubuntu basically speaks about what it means to be human.

Does taking the life of the perpetrator return your mom? No.

When people were hungry, Jesus didn't say, Now is that political or social? He said, I feed you. Because the good news to a hungry person is bread.

God looks at the Middle East, looks at Palestine. When you go to the Holy Land and see what's being done to the Palestinians at checkpoints, for us, it's the kind of thing we experienced in South Africa.

One of the things that people sense is that you are not doing this for self-glorification, you are doing it for the sake of others. The Dalai Lama has been in exile for so many years, yet the Chinese are running scared of him.

If God, as they say, is homophobic, I wouldn't worship that God.

I would refuse to go to a homophobic heaven.

Never let anyone make you feel inferior for being who you are. When you live the life you were meant to live, in freedom and dignity.

Forgiveness is an absolute necessity for continued human existence.

Trust is one of the fundamentals of human existence. We need to be able to trust one another. A man who can no longer trust anyone will become sick.

Every situation of justice is an occasion where someone is being humiliated and they want to restore their dignity. They think, I am a human being and I may not be able to defeat these people or destroy them, but I will hit out at them, because I am not a thing, I am human.

I wish that we did have a magic wand which we could wave and hey presto! Magic! Unfortunately life is not like that.

Freedom is indivisible. Whites can't enjoy their separate freedoms. They spend too much time and resources defending those freedoms instead of enjoying them.

If you are neutral in times of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.

We get most upset with those we love because they are close to us and we know that they are aware of our weaknesses... If only we could learn to live with our inadequacies, our frailties, our vulnerabilities, we would not need to try so hard to push away those who really know us.

We can arrive at better solutions to any problem or pain together, than we can by ourselves. The beauty of the modern age is that you are able to source answers, and sometimes the genius is in the combination of ideas and energy that does not reside in only one person.

For both the offender and the victim, the pain is there, often unacknowledged and that is when it can cause harm through festering. When I ignore a physical wound, it does not go away. No, it festers and goes bad.

We are all afflicted by original sin; people succumbing to temptations to do and to be.

There is only one way to eat an elephant, a bite at a time.

I am a Nobel Peace laureate and my business should be to try to bring stability, not to be a red rag to bulls.

I have absolutely no objection to performance and success as long as they don't become false idols and threaten to rule our lives.

Some people are able to use Bible as a means of opposing injustice, whereas others are able to find justification.

I am passionately opposed to the death penalty for anyone. I think, myself, that it is an obscenity.

I don't want a moratorium on the death penalty. I want the abolition of it. I can't understand why a country USA that's so committed to human rights doesn't find the death penalty an obscenity.

Ubuntu tells us that we can create a more peaceful world by striving for goodness in each moment, wherever we are.