Quotes by Virginia Woolf

Every secret of a writer's soul, every experience of his life, every quality of his mind, is written large in his works.

If you do not tell the truth about yourself, you cannot tell it about other people.

Women have served all these centuries as looking glasses possessing the magic and delicious power of reflecting the figure of a man at twice its natural size.

Fiction is like a spider's web, attached ever so lightly perhaps, but still attached to life at all four corners. Often the attachment is scarcely perceptible.

One cannot think well, love well and sleep well if one has not dined well.

The human frame being what it is, heart, body and brain all mixed together, and not contained in separate compartments as they will be no doubt in another million years, a good dinner is of great importance to good talk. One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well.

Life would split apart without letters.

The truer the facts the better the fiction.

Soup is cuisines kindest course.

Theories then are dangerous things.

I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realizes an emotion at the time. It expands later, and thus we don't have complete emotions about the present, only about the past.

Green in nature is one thing, green in literature another. Nature and letters seem to have a natural antipathy bring them together and they tear each other to pieces.

The mind is the most capricious of insects--flitting, fluttering.

All the months are crude experiments.

The world wavered and quivered and threatened to burst into flames. It is I who am blocking the way, he thought. Was he not being looked at and pointed at; was he not weighted there, rooted to the pavement, for a purpose? But for what purpose?

It was anger that had gone underground and mixed itself with all kinds of other emotions. To judge from its odd effects, it was anger disguised and complex, not anger simple and open.

As we are a doomed race, chained to a sinking ship, as the whole thing is a bad joke, let us, at any rate, do our part; mitigate the suffering of our fellow-prisoners; decorate the dungeon with flowers and air-cushions; be as decent as we possibly can.

To read a novel is a difficult and complex art. You must be capable not only of great fineness of perception, but of great boldness of imagination.

I'm one of those who are hampered by the psychological hindrance of owning capital.

We are only lightly covered with buttoned cloth; and beneath these pavements are shells, bones and silence.

When the wolf walks by you, you will remember.

Literature is no one's private ground, literature is common ground; let us trespass freely and fearlessly and find our own way for ourselves.

Chastity may be a fetish invented by certain societies for unknown reasons.

Buy for me from the King's own kennels, the finest elk hounds of the Royal strain, male and female. Bring them back without delay. For, he murmured, scarcely above his breath as he turned to his books, I have done with men.

There was her way with flowers, for instance. At Bourton they always had stiff little vases all the way down the table. Sally went out, picked hollyhocks, dahlias -- all sorts of flowers that had never been seen together -- cut their heads off, and made them swim on the top of water in bowls.

She saw her sitting with her son in the window and the cloud moving and the tree bending, how life, from being made up of little separate incidents which one lived one by one, became curled and whole like a wave which bore one up and threw one down with it, there, with a dash on the beach.

Let us not take it for granted that life exists more in what is commonly thought big than in what is commonly thought small.

And what greater delight and wonder can there be than to leave the straight lines of personality and deviate into those footpaths that lead beneath brambles and thick tree trunks into the heart of the forest where live those wild beasts, our fellow men?

I detest the masculine point of view. I am bored by his heroism, virtue, and honour. I think the best these men can do is not talk about themselves anymore.

I rise from my worst disasters, I turn, I change.

Literature is the record of our discontent.

Joy's life in the doing (..) I mean it's the writing, not the being read that excites me.

I use my friends rather as giglamps : There's another field I see: by your light. Over there's a hill. I widen my landscape.

Yes, our old age is not going to be sunny orchard drowse. By shutting down the fire curtain, though, I find I can live in the moment; which is good; why yield a moment to regret or envy or worry? Why indeed? (24 December 1940).

What a vast fertility of pleasure books hold for me! ... I think I could happily live here and read forever.

The immense success of our life, is I think, that our treasure is hid away; or rather in such common things that nothing can touch it.

Habits gradually change the face of ones life as time changes one's physical face;andamp; one does not know it.

At the moment I can only note that the past is beautiful because one never realises an emotion at the time. It expands later and thus we don't have complete emotions about the present, only about the past.

When she looked in the glass and saw her hair grey her cheek sunk, at fifty, she thought, possibly she might have managed things better -- her husband; money; his books. But for her own part she would never for a single second regret her decision, evade difficulties, or slur over duties.

Are we so made that we have to take death in small doses daily or we could not go on with the business of living?

She hated her: she loved her. It was enemies one wanted, not friends .

These moments of escape are not to be despised. They come too seldom.

There is the strange power we have of changing facts by the force of the imagination.

I am not one and simple, but complex and many.

For the philosopher is right who says that nothing thicker than a knife's blade separates happiness from melancholy.

Her thoughts became mysteriously tightened and strung up as if a piano tuner had put his key in her back and stretched the nerves very taut.

Purely feminine; with that extraordinary gift, that woman's gift, of making a world of her own wherever she happened to be.

Wat a vast fertility of pleasure books hold for me! I went in and found the table laden with books. I looked in and sniffed them all. I could not resist carrying this one off and broaching it. I think I could happily live here and read forever.

The proper stuff of fiction' does not exist; everything is the proper stuff of fiction, every feeling, every thought; every quality of brain and spirit is drawn upon; no perception comes amiss.

Money dignifies what is frivolous if unpaid for.

Different though the sexes are, they inter-mix. In every human being a vacillation from one sex to the other takes place, and often it is only the clothes that keep the male or female likeness, while underneath the sex is the very opposite of what it is above.

It flattered her, where she was most susceptible of flattery, to think how, wound about in their hearts, however long they lived she would be woven.

I make it a rule to try everything, she said. Don't you think it would be very annoying if you tasted ginger for the first time on your deathbed, and found you never liked anything so much? I should be so exceedingly annoyed that I think I should get well on that account alone.

Sometimes she had it; sometimes not. She never knew why it came or why it went, or if she had it until she came into the room and then she knew instantly by the way some man looked at her.

The number of books in the world is infinite, and one is forced to glimpse and nod and move on after a moment of talk, a flash of understanding, as, in the street outside, one catches a word in passing and from a chance phrase fabricates a lifetime.

Methinks the human method of expression by sound of tongue is very elementary, and ought to be substituted for some ingenious invention which should be able to give vent to at least six coherent sentences at once.

The journey is everything. Most necessary of all, but rarest good fortune, we should try to find some man of our own sort who will go with us and to whom we can say the first thing that comes into our heads. For pleasure has no relish unless we share it.

Thus Mr. Lawrence, Mr. Douglas and Mr. Joyce partly spoil their books for women readers by their display of self-conscious virility; and Mr. Hemingway, but much less violently, follows suit.

Gently the waves would break (Lily heard them in her sleep); tenderly the light fell (it seemed to come through her eyelids). And it all looked, Mr. Carmichael thought, shutting his book, falling asleep, much as it used to look years ago.

She felt... how life, from being made up of little separate incidents which one lived one by one, became curled and whole like a wave which bore one up with it and threw one down with it, there, with a dash on the beach.

A million candles burnt in him without his being at the trouble of lighting a single one.

The earth hangs heavy beneath me.

This susceptibility to impressions had been his undoing, no doubt. Still at his age he had, like a boy or a girl even, these alternations of mood; good days, bad days, for no reason whatever, happiness from a pretty face, downright misery at the sight if a frump.

I can't imagine anything nicer than to sit out in the moonlight and listen to music--.

Everything is moving, falling, slipping, vanishing... There is a vast upheaval of matter.

For we think back through our mothers if we are women.

All extremes of feeling are allied with madness.

What then? Who then?' she said. 'Thirty-six; in a motor car; a woman. Yes, but a million other things as well.

She put on her lace collar. She put on her new hat and he never noticed; and he was happy without her.

For nothing matters except life; and, of course, order.

O why do I ever let anyone read what I write! Every time I have to go through a breakfast with a letter of criticism I swear I will write for my own praise or blame in future. It is a misery.

Neither of us knows what the public will think. There's no doubt in my mind that I have found out how to begin (at forty) to say something in my own voice; and that interests me so that I feel I can go ahead without praise.

In illness words seem to possess a mystic quality.

For there is a virtue in truth; it has an almost mystic power. Like radium, it seems to give off forever and ever grains of energy, atoms of light.

For beyond the difficulty of communicating oneself, there is the supreme difficulty of being oneself.

I am extremely happy walking on the downs...I like to have space to spread my mind out in.

A leering, sneering obscene little harpy.

Quite the chilliest and least human known to me. You see brains floating like so many sea-anemones, nor have they shape or colour.

It's been a perpetual discovery, my life. A miracle.

There were masses of pictures she had not seen; however, Lily Briscoe reflected, perhaps it was better not to see pictures: they only made one hopelessly discontented with one's own work.

I raged, and woke to hear the rain.

No passion is stronger in the breast of a man than the desire to make others believe as he believes. Nothing so cuts at the root of his happiness and fills him with rage as the sense that another rates low what he prizes high.

But Time, unfortunately, though it makes animals and vegetables bloom and fade with amazing punctuality has no such simple effect upon the mind of man.

I want some one to sit beside after the day's pursuit and all its anguish, after its listening, its waitings, and its suspicions. After quarreling and reconciliation I need privacy -- to be alone with you, to set this hubbub in order. For I am as neat as a cat in my habits.

Now this is very profound, what rhythm is, and goes far deeper than words. A sight, an emotion, creates this wave in the mind, long before it makes words to fit it .

And now more than anything I want beautiful prose. I relish it more and more exquisitely.

Not as oneself did one find rest ever, in her experience (she accomplished here something dexterous with her needles) but as a wedge of darkness.

All looked distant and peaceful and strange. The shore seemed refined, far away, unreal. Already the little distance they had sailed had put them far from it and given it the changed look, the composed look, of something receding in which one has no longer any part.

I was lying in bed this morning and saying to myself, 'the remarkable thing about Ethel is her stupendous self-satisfaction' when in came your letter to confirm this profound psychological observation. How delighted I was!

For ourselves, who are ordinary men and women, let us return thanks to Nature for her bounty by using every one of the senses she has given us.

Her eyes were full of a hot liquid (she did not think of tears at first) which, without disturbing the firmness of her lips, made the air thick, rolled down her cheeks. She had perfect control of herself-Oh, yes!-in every other way.

Does Nature supplement what man advanced? Or does she complete what he began?

The man looks the world full in the face, as if it were made for his uses and fashioned to his liking. The woman takes a sidelong glance at it, full of subtlety, even of suspicion.

First she starved herself of love, which meant also life; then of poetry in deference to what she thought her religion demanded.

Am I a weed, carried this way, that way, on a tide that comes twice a day without a meaning?

I should like to tidy things up and disappear.

I do not believe that gifts, whether of mind or character, can be weighed like sugar and butter.

She had been trapped into saying something she did not mean.

Sir, I would trust you with my heart. Moreover, we have left our bodies in the banqueting hall. Those on the turf are the shadows of our souls.

Like most uneducated Englishwomen, I like reading -- I like reading books in the bulk.

But Sasha who after all had no English blood in her but was from Russia where the sunsets are longer, the dawns less sudden, and sentences often left unfinished from doubt as to how best to end them.

The good citizen when he opens his door in the evening must be banker, golfer, husband, father; not a nomad wandering the desert, a mystic staring at the sky, a debauchee in the slums of San Francisco, a soldier heading a revolution, a pariah howling with skepticism and solitude.

I can sit alone by an open window for hours if I like, and hear only bird songs, and the rustle of leaves. The trees are pure gold and orange,.

He would argue with her about killing themselves; and explain how wicked people were; how he could see them making up lies as they passed in the street. He knew all their thoughts, he said; he knew everything. He knew the meaning of the world, he said.

Fiction is like a spider's web, attached ever so lightly perhaps, but still attached to life at all four corners.

When I cannot see words curling like rings of smoke round me I am in darkness--I am nothing.

How then did it work out, all this? How did one judge people, think of them? How did one add up this and that and conclude that it is liking one felt, or disliking?

A biography is considered complete if it merely accounts for six or seven selves, whereas a person may well have as many as a thousand.

I am obsessed at nights with the idea of my own worthlessness, and if it were only to turn a light on to save my life I think I would not do it. These are the last footprints of a headache I suppose. Do you ever feel that? -- like an old weed in a stream. What do you feel, lying in bed?

The sea was indistinguishable from the sky, except that the sea was slightly creased as if a cloth had wrinkles in it.

I really don't advise a woman who wants to have things her own way to get married.

I condemn you. Yet my heart yearns towards you. I would go with you through the fires of death. Yet am happiest alone.

To teach without zest is a crime.

I am reading Henry James...and feel myself as one entombed in a block of smooth amber.

There was an emptiness about the heart of life; an attic room. Women must put off their rich apparel. At midday they must disrobe.

To be caught happy in a world of misery was for an honest man the most despicable of crimes.

About here, she thought, dabbling her fingers in the water, a ship had sunk, and she muttered, dreamily half asleep, how we perished, each alone.

I feel all shadows of the universe multiplied deep inside my skin.

Dance music ... stirs some barbaric instinct -- lulled asleep in our sober lives -- you forget centuries of civilization in a second, and yield to that strange passion which sends you madly whirling round the room.

I prefer men to cauliflowers.

Come indoors then, and open the books on your library shelves. For you have a library and a good one. A working library, a living library; a library where nothing is chained down and nothing is locked up; a library where the songs of the singers rise naturally from the lives of the livers.

Her simplicity fathomed what clever people falsified.

The immense success of our life is, I think, that our treasure is hid away; or rather in such common things that nothing can touch it.

Other worshipful objects were content with worship; men, women, God, all let one kneel prostrate; but this form, were it only the shape of a white lampshade looming on a wicker table, roused one to perpetual combat, challenged one to a fight in which one was bound to be worsted.

What the fissure through which one sees disaster? The circle is unbroken; the harmony complete. Here is the central rhythm; here the common mainspring. I watch it expand, contract; and then expand again. Yet I am not included.

Venerable are letters, infinitely brave, forlorn, and lost.

The mind is the most capricious of insects -- flitting, fluttering.

We must reconcile ourselves to a season of failures and fragments.

Friendships, even the best of them, are frail things. One drifts apart.

Tom's great yellow bronze mask all draped upon an iron framework. An inhibited, nerve-drawn; dropped face -- as if hung on a scaffold of heavy private brooding; and thought.

Travelers are much at the mercy of phrases ... vast generalizations formulate in their exposed brains.

I'm terrified of passive acquiescence. I live in intensity.

Our apparitions, the things you know us by, are simply childish. Beneath it is all dark, it is all spreading, it is unfathomably deep; but now and again we rise to the surface and that is what you see us by.

The art of writing has for backbone some fierce attachment to an idea.

Women have burnt like beacons in all the works of all the poets from the beginning of time.

He lay on his chair with his hands clasped above his paunch not reading, or sleeping, but basking like a creature gorged with existence.

It was a silly, silly dream, being unhappy.